TheGraduationGift
Foreword:
Graduationisamilestoneinone’slife,markingtheendofanimportantchapterandthebeginningofanewjourney.Thisisatimeforcelebration,reflection,andappreciation.AsIapproachedmygraduation,Iwasexcitedandnervousatthesametime.However,Ihadagiftthatmeantalottome-agiftthatmyfriendshadputtogetherovermonthsofplanning.Thisgiftwasnotjustanyordinarygift,itwasasymbolofourfriendshipandthememorieswehadsharedovertheyears.Itallstartedonatypicalweekdayafternoon.Iwalkedintoourcommonroomtofindmyfriendsgatheredaroundthetablewithaneagerlookontheirfaces.AsIapproachedthem,theyaskedmetoclosemyeyesandextendedtheirhandstogivemesomething.Iwashesitantbutcurious.Iclosedmyeyesandfeltsomethingbeingplacedinmyhands.WhenIopenedmyeyes,Isawabeautifullywrappedgiftboxinmyhand.AsIunwrappedthebox,Ifoundascrapbookfilledwithpicturesofourtimetogether.Therewerepicturesfromourfirstdayofcollege,parties,tripswehadtaken,andothermemorablemoments.IwasoverwhelmedwithemotionsasIflippedthroughthepages.Eachpictureremindedmeofthejoyandlaughterwehadsharedtogetherovertheyears.
AsIsattherelookingatthescrapbook,myfriendsexplainedhowtheyhadplannedthisgiftovermanymonths.Theyhadreachedouttoeachofourfriendstocollectpicturesandmemoriestoincludeinthescrapbook.Thisgiftwasnotjustaboutthepicturesormemories;itwasaboutthebondthatwesharedasfriends.Itwasareminderoftheloveandsupportwehadforeachother.Overthenextfewdays,ItookthescrapbookwithmewhereverIwent.Itwaslikeaconstantcompanion,remindingmeofallthememorieswehadsharedtogether.Ishowedittomyfamily,whoweretouchedbytheeffortmyfriendshadputintothisgift.Asgraduationdayapproached,Iwasfilledwithmixedemotions.Iwassadtoleavebehindthememoriesandfriendsthathadbeenasignificantpartofmylifeforthepastfouryears.Onthedayofgraduation,Iworemycapandgown,feelingbothproudandsentimental.AsIwalkedacrossthestagetoreceivemydiploma,Isawmyfriendsinthecrowdcheeringmeon.Thememoriesofourtimetogetherflashedthroughmymind,andIfeltgratefulfortheexperienceswehadshared.Aftertheceremony,wetookpicturestogether,andIhuggedeachoneofthem,knowingthatourliveswereabouttochangeasweembarkedondifferentpaths.AsIreturnedtomydormroomthatnight,Isatdownwiththescrapbookinmylapandwentthroughitonemoretime.Thistime,however,Ilookedateachpicturecarefully,takingineverydetail.Eachpicturerepresentedamomentintimethatwehadsharedtogether,andIfeltblessedtohavesuchamazingfriends.
AsIclosedthescrapbookandplaceditonmyshelf,Iknewthatthisgiftwouldalwaysholdaspecialplaceinmyheart.Itwasnotjustanygraduationgift;itwasasymbolofourfriendshipandthememorieswehadcreatedtogether.Ifeltgratefultohavesuchwonderfulfriendswhohadputinsomuchefforttocreatesomethingsomeaningful.Graduationisanemotionaltime,buthavingfriendswhocareaboutyoucanmakeitalittleeasiertosaygoodbye.Thisgiftremindedmethatfriendshipsarenotjustaboutthegoodtimes;theyareaboutbeingthereforeachotherthroughthickandthin.AsImoveontothenextphaseofmylife,IknowthatIwillalwayscherishthisgiftandthememoriesitrepresents.